Living in America can make you sick

Gary R. Collins reports some interesting findings about the American lifestyle. Would you agree that this phenomenon is even more prominent among single adults?

Living in America can make you sick. That’s the conclusion of a research-based article in Monitor on Psychology (April 2007). Despite record amounts spent on health care, Americans have higher rates of sickness than other Western nations. Two factors are especially toxic.

First, compared to most other developed nations, Americans work longer hours, take fewer vacations, and more often have two jobs. This increases stress and undermines health.

Second, Americans live in an isolated nation. We are mobile people who make frequent moves leaving friends and family behind. After work every day we withdraw into our houses, have few contacts with neighbors and a decreasing network of confidants.

Overachieving parents run their kids from activity to activity so everybody is tired and there is no time for relaxing with friends. When we teach children to excel and seek material success, they jump on the activity wheel even at the expense of healthy lifestyles and social interactions.

- garyrcollins.com

The Buzzard, The Bat, and The Bumblebee

The BUZZARD

If you put a buzzard in a pen that is 6 feet by 8 feet and is entirely open at the top, the bird, in spite of its ability to fly, will be an absolute prisoner. The reason is that a buzzard always begins a flight from the ground with a run of 10 to 12 feet. Without space to run, as is its habit, it will not even attempt to fly, but will remain a prisoner for life in a small jail with no top.

The BAT

The ordinary bat that flies around at night, a remarkably nimble creature in the air, cannot take off from a level place. If it is placed on the floor or flat ground, all it can do is shuffle about helplessly and, no doubt, painfully, until it reaches some slight elevation from which it can throw itself into the air. Then, at once, it takes off like a flash.

The BUMBLEBEE

A bumblebee, if dropped into an open tumbler, will be there until it dies, unless it is taken out. It never sees the means of escape at the top, but persists in trying to find some way out through the sides near the bottom. It will seek a way where none exists, until it completely destroys itself.

PEOPLE

In many ways, we are like the buzzard, the bat, and the bumblebee. We struggle about with all our problems and frustrations, never realizing that all we have to do is look up.

Sorrow looks back, worry looks around, but faith looks up.

- author unknown

You are not alone!

Do you know the legend of the Cherokee Indian youth's rite of passage?

His dad takes him into the forest blindfolded and leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not take off the blindfold until the ray of sun shines through it. He is all by himself. He cannot cry out for help to anyone.

Once he survives the night, he is a MAN. He cannot tell the other boys of this experience. Each lad must come into his own manhood. The boy in our story was, naturally, terrified. Her could hear all kinds of noise. Beasts were all around him. Maybe even a human would hurt him. The wind blew the grass and earth and it shook his stump. But he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could be a man.

Finally, after a horrific night the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold. It was then that he saw his father sitting on the stump next to him - at watch the entire night.

"I will never fail you. I will never abandon you."- God (Hebrews 13:5)

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Thought-Provoking Quotations: Friendships

After the friendship of God, a friend’s affection is the greatest treasure here below. - author unknown

In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends. - Churton Collins

Nobody has so many friends that he can afford to lose one. - Edward Abbey

What’s friendship, when all’s done, but the giving and taking of wounds? - Frederick Buechner

Your best friend is he who brings out the best that is within you. - Henry Ford

A friend is one before whom I may think aloud. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

A friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. - author unknown

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart. - Eleanor Roosevelt

A friend is a person with whom you dare to be yourself. - author unknown

Oh, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then, with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away. - George Eliot

When we honestly ask ourselves which persons in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereave-ment, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. - Henri Nouwen

Some people come into our lives and quickly go; others stay for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts and we are never quite the same. - author unknown

If you treat a person as he is, he will stay as he is; but if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be, he will become what he ought to be and could be. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

A true and genuine friend, one of those very few special persons who enter my life, is one with whom I can share my brokenness without feeling cheapened. - a Dear Abby reader

Is any pleasure on earth as great as a circle of Christian friends by a fire? - C. S. Lewis

No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence. - George Eliot

True friendship is one soul shared by two bodies. - Mexican proverb

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